So…you’re a hooker..?

That is the general consensus whenever Sugar is brought up. Before I get started on The Chronicles (yeah. they have a name now.), I figured I should make it clear exactly what the sugar lifestyle entails. Now, keep in mine, I am still fairly new to this and learn something new every single encounter, so do not take my word as gospel.

There are two parties in the agreement : The Sugar Daddy (SD) and the Sugar Baby (SB). Easy enough.

The roles of both is where it gets morally murky for some. Generally, the two meet via a website that encourages this lifestyle and their wants/needs are laid out. This includes how much the SB is looking for as well as how much the SD is willing to give. Throw in the typical dating site profile with huge emphasis on age, career, and annual salary and you have any Sugar website. Sounds a bit odd, right? Its pretty simple. You have men who are far too busy amassing massive amounts of money to invest in a REAL relationship and a ton of beautiful women looking to put themselves through school or buy the newest bag (These girls. Lol. These girls.) on someone elses dime. Its mutually beneficial for what the relationship lacks with “endgame”, meaning there will be no marriage or even furthering of the relationship, is made up for in money or gifts. And boy, are some SDs VERY generous.

So how does it begin?

Typically, if both parties feel the arrangement is suitable for them after their first (sometimes second) meeting, they will agree upon set reimbursement for the time given by the SB to the SD. This is where its important to differentiate between hooking and sugaring : SBs SHOULD NOT, I repeat SHOULD NOT allow sex to occur on the first meeting or even within the first few meetings. There should be no bonus for physical attention and it should progress as organically as a NORMAL relationship should, given a little rush because of the limited time. This is where it gets unclear for me because I am still new to the lifestyle but so far I have received enough money to pay off a semester of school on just basic one-off dates with possible follow ups. As I become more aware of how these progress, I can explain a bit more in detail.

So, really, what I was doing FOR FREE FOR SO MANY YEARS now has a huge amount of money attached to it when played out right.

FML.

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